How to Be Better Than Your Enemy

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Forgiveness and acceptance are the keys to being better than your enemy. Even using the word "enemy" is problematic and if you continue to see life in this black and white context, you will be the one who ends up suffering, not your so-called "enemies".

1) Stop keeping tabs of your enemy's achievements and your belittlement's.

2) Stop referring to the other person as an enemy.

3) Turn the other cheek.

4) Live your life.

5) Look to yourself. What do you need to do better to feel better about yourself? If someone bothers you so much that you feel you need to label them as an "enemy", maybe you are jealous of them or you feel insecure around them.

6) Be nice. No matter how rudely the other person treats you, don't return the volley. 

7) Forgive them and accept who you both are. 

Tips: 

• It doesn't matter what this person thinks, nor what anyone else thinks. So if your so-called enemy thinks your change of heart is "stupid" and continues to consider YOU an enemy, let her. Just don't give her anything bad to say about you; being kind in all situations is essential. That way, when she goes to needle you about something, she'll be speechless- because you've done nothing to hurt her.
• Remember, life goes on and holding grudges isn't always the best idea. Think of yourself as the better person in this situation.

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